In the beginning, your love was a beautiful thing. You and your ex were #relationshipgoals and the envy of all your friends. Now it’s all over and you’re quite sure your ex is crazy. These days, everybody says their ex is crazy so most people don’t take that seriously, but what if your ex is actually crazy?
Having a crazy ex is something that should give anyone pause. The fear of not knowing whether he/she will post a thread about you on twitter or send a shady message about you to thirstdelivery man can keep you up at night. But it doesn’t have to come to that, fam. Here’s a list of ways you can avoid a crazy ex from showing up at your house at 9 pm with their dad.
1.Before you end a relationship, make sure you make things clear between the two of you. As long as it is up to you, end the relationship on a good note. This will greatly reduce your chances of receiving creepy text messages at 2 am about how you broke their heart and how you’ll never find love again.
2. Do not sugarcoat things. If you ended things, let them stay ended. Don’t give your ex false hopes by leaving their questions open ended or giving them romantic attention. If you think you can remain friends, make sure the lines are properly drawn.
3. If things were beyond your control and your relationship ended badly and you are 100% sure you want to end things, the first step you need to take is to cut off all communication with your ex. Both of you will need some time apart to heal. Giving in to your ex’s provocations or spending time together is not good for any one of you . Do not give a green light you don’t mean.
4. After cutting off communication, cut of from your ex’s friends. This is hard but you have to do it to stay sane. Staying friends with your ex’s friends means your relationship will keep coming up, which is not a good thing. If you’re not talking to your ex there’s really no need to hang out with their friends. You’ll be much better off staying away.
5. Take time off romantic relationships to build yourself. You cannot keep jumping from one relationship to another. If your ex is truly as crazy as you say they are, they will definitely come after whoever it is you’re with and sabotage your relationship. Spend time making yourself a better person so you don’t go ruining other peoples lives again.
