Everybody, at one time or the other, has had a secret crush; someone who they are secretly in love with but who is totally unaware of their existence. They have gone on imaginary dates with this person and some have even set wedding dates in their minds. Now, since it has long been established that you cannot be in a relationship with yourself, you need your crush to notice and eventually fall in love with you.
Making your crush fall in love with you is not that hard especially when you have close access to them. There’s no need to be over dramatic or look for a love potion from some silly native/witch doctor. Just follow these simple steps and your crush will be in your arms before you know it.
1.Get your crush to notice you, subtly.
Don’t just blurt out to your crush that you’re in love with them; they’ll just think you’re a crazy person and you don’t want to act like a crazy person around someone who is just finding out you exist. You have to lay a good foundation so your first task will be to get them to notice you. Dress attractively and try to make eye contact as much as possible. Laugh at his/her jokes, especially when you’re in the midst of friends so they know you’re paying extra attention to them. You also have to be extra kind to them. Body language matters too so mind the way you touch them and smile at them. Brush up on them in a way it seems accidental but you know its not.
2. Be love-able and available
If you’re trying to get your crush to fall in love with you, you have to be love-able at all times. There’s no need to be grumpy when you’re around the love of your life. Always have a welcoming spirit and be emotionally available. You should build up the chemistry between the two of you; this encourages your crush to approach you.
3. Do not drool
Try as much as you can not to stare for too long or drool. Staring is just creepy so refrain from doing it. Don’t make your crush feel like you have nothing better to do, even though you don’t. Act like you’re busy give a little attention and then disappear. Let some things remain a mystery.
4. Play hard to get
This one is a little bit tricky. Getting someone to fall in love with you but playing hard to get at the same time is for professional use only. As much as you need this person to love you back, you gotta know your worth. You’re giving out hints but you can’t be that easy. Play a little with your crush’s emotions. Don’t be too quick to give out your phone number. Just act like you really don’t care and the next day act like you’re really into them. It confuses the person and they’ll really want to know if you’re genuinely into them or not so they keep coming back.
5. Don’t push it
If your crush doesn’t fall in love with you immediately, don’t feel discouraged or act differently toward the person; you can still be friends. Make sure you act as normal as possible around the person and with time, the person may get to know you a little more and love you back eventually.