For those of you who don’t know, Husband material means a guy that is considered perfect enough to get married.
What makes you think you’re qualified to be husband material? Is it your money, your job, the clothes you wear, the cars you drive? what exactly does a man need to do or have to become ‘Husband Material?’.
It’s really not that hard to become husband material. All you have to do first of all is forget everything you have heard from other people and I’ll personally walk you through this.
Here is how to become husband material
1. Be ready for a commitment
You cannot say you’re husband material if you are not ready to commit to one woman. going into a relationship with a lady to see if she’s the right one for you means you’ll jump out of it the moment there’s fire on the roof without trying to quench the fire. what you need to to is be ready for a commitment.
2. Love and respect unconditionally
Love is patient, love is kind. Be a good man to the woman in your life. Respect everything about her. Loving her for who she is and not who you want her to be. Be emotionally available too.
3. Have a plan for your life
Having a plan for your life only shows that you have a vision and you know what you want.
4. Share and plan your future with your partner
Yes you have a plan for your future but have you infused your partner into your future plans? That’s a big step to being husband material. Share your plans for the future and see how your partner can fit into these plans.
5. Support your partners goals and dreams
You have to inspire your partner to be the better. If you are influencing your partner positively and with you she is working harder and thriving to be better then guess what friend? you are husband material.
6. Be a family man
This is very important. You have to be a homely person. You enjoy staying at home, spending time with family and you know are ready to give up the late nights of partying with friends.
A man who is ready to settle down is not jealous because he understands that his partner will not suddenly become blind to other men just because she is in a committed relationship and understands that other men will still try to woo her. You need to learn to trust.
There you have it. A few tips on becoming ‘Husband Material’.