Men always complain that women are too complicated and that they really don’t understand what they really mean when they say something.
When you ask a woman what’s wrong with her and she says ‘nothing’ or you ask her what she wants to eat and she replies, ‘I don’t know, anything’. She has communicated but you did’t understand her.
I agree that sometimes understanding a woman is really hard but what men need to do is pay more attention to her body language and you’ll pick up what she means sometimes. There are steps you need to take to understand a woman fully.
That’s a joke, you can never ‘fully’ understand a woman and to think you can is just madness, plain and simple. So while we can’t help you understand women, we can give you a guide to help you on your way at least.
When she says ‘oh’
Saying ‘Oh’ does not mean a woman agrees with what your saying, ‘Oh’ means she’s pretty upset with what you just said. You plan to go for a wedding or a date and you call to cancel because something important came up, my brother the moment you hear her say ‘oh’ and ends it there or ‘oh, so you didn’t know you had something else to do before now?’ please just cancel your other plans.
When she says ‘its okay, I’m not mad’
Take cover because this is a sign she is very angry, she probably is not in the mood for a fight or she’s just waiting for the right opportunity to blow up. So it’s best to start apologizing for whatever it is you did to her. Never assume that because she said she’s not mad she really isn’t.
When she asks ‘who is she?’
If your girl asks about another girl randomly, she must have seen or heard something. You may have liked a very sexy picture in Instagram and because the internet offers no privacy, she finds out somehow. The moment she asks you that question you know it’s time to ask for God’s divine intervention.
When she says ‘I like that’
Grab your pen and paper because issa valentine list. You can find out what your woman wants from what she says she likes regularly, she may see a bag or shoes or books and she blurts out ‘i like that’, take note. It will go a long way.
When she says “I don’t know, just do what you want”
Never ever take that advice, she’s just trying to tell you that she’s not in support of what you want to do but if you feel like you want to do it ‘just do what you want to do’. It’s a trap I tell you. You take that advice and end up getting into trouble with your woman. The next step is to apologize and she goes ‘It’s okay, I’m not mad’. That’s double wahala for you.
When she says ‘nothing’
Nothing may mean nothing and it may also mean she just needs attention. She’s not ready to tell you what the problem is but she wants you there for her so don’t just walk away because you asked her what the problem was and she said ‘nothing’. Hold her and show you care for her, when she feels better she’ll definitely open up.