Men are really simple to understand. It’s true that men are logical to a certain level and think with their heads and not their hearts and that’s why it’s not hard to please them as long as you know what it is they want. Nigerian men are straight forward and apart from getting to their hearts through their stomachs, there are other ways you can enjoy a blissful relationship with a Nigerian man.
Here are a few things Nigerian men want in a woman
1. A GOOD COOK
That saying, the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, is very true for Nigerian men. Nigerian men really like their food! Yes, there are exceptions but this is what you must assume till you are told otherwise. A woman who can cook well is 5 times more attractive to a Nigerian man because he knows he can always have good, home-cooked meals made by his woman. This does not mean you have to spend your time in the kitchen but once in a while, take out the time to treat your man to something he would spend his money on in a restaurant.
Nigerian men want women who are good listeners and they certainly love attention. By attention here, we don’t becoming a nuisance; know when to call or text your man and don’t stress him out. If he’s a busy person, send a text in between working hours, to let him know you care. Now, you need to understand that men are not emotional so don’t expect them to always discuss their emotions with you. But if you know he’s going through something be there for him and let him know that you’re there to listen to him whenever he’s ready to talk. He may never be ready to talk about it but he appreciates you for being there for him.
Men want to be respected by women. You can show him how much you care about him by giving him the respect he deserves. We all make mistakes so try to correct him in love without being out rightly disrespectful to him. Bringing him down will not help build your relationship instead help him dust his garment and straighten his crown with words of encouragement. A man wants someone he can look up to for good advice and have meaningful conversations with.
It’s not enough to say that you’re in love with someone and you don’t trust the person. Trust is important in every relationship and every man wants to be trusted. You have to be able to give him freedom without worrying about his whereabouts. As long as you have faith in him and he knows that, he will never make a move without considering your feelings first.
You cannot rely on your man all the days of your life. They get tired of that. Yes, a man wants you to be dependent on him as long as he loves you, he wants to take care of you but you need to show him that you can also take care of yourself. That way he can trust you with a lot of things. You cannot keep taking from a man without giving back and I don’t mean giving back in bed, giving back intellectually. A woman that is capable of helping her man grow is very important.
6. A FRIENDLY AND SOCIABLE WOMAN
A woman who can relate with her man’s friends is everything. Men want women who will be friendly with his friends and family. If his family or friends keep complaining about your attitude then there’s going to be a problem. Being friendly does not mean being flirty so you need to know when to draw the line. Know how to balance your attitude toward his friends.
7. PHYSICAL ATTRACTIVENESS
I would say that some women are guilty of losing their attractiveness when they are in a married or in a relationship. No! There is no toning down, you need to slay all day, every day! Men love it when their women are attractive. If you can walk into a room and make all the people both male and female turn around then you’re a keeper. They want to fall in love with you over and over again. Note that being attractive does not mean you have to be super pretty but dress nicely , take care of yourself, smell nice and be confident.